I don't always want to, and it usually takes me weeks to do, but after a large fire I often drive through the lost neighborhoods. It's ugly, and makes me very sad, yet I've found that after witnessing this level of loss and damage, it's impossible to not feel an immense amount of gratitude for all of the blessings in my life. I believe that blessings aren't blessings unless we recognize them. And this is one of my ways of doing that.
"When I started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around"